By james art 
It was “conversion therapy with a ranch side.” As a young teenager who felt it was unlike most other boys, but he has not yet admitted that he is gay, writer Peter Rothpelet is taken to Hutters by his grandfather for “baptism in manhood – one that would support beautifully,” writes Rothpelet in an essay essay in the essay New York TimesS Their waitress – “The cartoon of the cartoon, who is a waiter of Hooters” – means that she recognizes his sexual orientation. And when the Roths was alone, she slid into the cabin against him and betrayed an important message: “You are perfect as you are, a child.” For decades, the Roths thought of this as the only experience. But now he sees “the delicious irony that the chain restaurant, known for its cleavage and chicken wings, has somehow become a secret sanctuary for young gay men.”
When Rothpletz recently described the experience online, he received “hundreds” messages from other gay men with similar stories, he writes. A man recalled that when his father asked him for a photo of two waitresses kissing his “very blazing” son, the women felt the boy’s hesitation and wink offered to make bunnies instead. “Then I just felt like a safe space,” the man said. Another man said the waitress was kind to him as a 9-year-old after relatives wanted to flirt. “Maybe these women – so often branded as almost sexual workers, so accustomed to the side looks of society – see deadline spirits in boys who are not quite” straight “, suggests a Rothpelet.” Or maybe it is more simply: the skill of the room is still gentle for those who need it. “Read.”